There exists in the realm of Pickup Artists many schools of thought. Naturally with these school of thoughts there exists different gurus, experts, pickup artists, and disciples. There are systems that focus on just getting as much sex as you can, systems that teach you how to pick up as many women as possible, and those that teach you how to gain and maintain real relationships. All these pickup artist techniques are variations of a fundamental system but at different complexities. I personally dislike the sex systems because they are shallow, abuse the pickup artist techniques, and generally are cheap, quick fixes that skim on the art of attracting women. I prefer systems that focus on actual relationships and treating women like human beings instead of a talking blow up doll.
If you study pickup artist methods, there exists a whole parallel universe complete with their own language, viewpoint, code system, and ideals. Amongst the various pickup artist tactics and systems, I will go over the world famous and legendary: Mystery's M3 Model. This is among the first, if not the first systems that was actually codified into a set structure and acts as the skeleton/guideline for quite a few of the systems out there.
Attraction
1. Open
2. Female to Male Interest
3. Male to Female Interest
Comfort
1. Building Rapport
2. Building emotional and physical connections
3. Intimacy
Seduction
1. Arousal
2. Last Minute Resistance
3. Sex
A1. Open
You open the set (group you want to approach), meaning you initiate contact by approaching them. This includes the hated cold approaches, pickup lines, and beginning a conversation. Must also include a Social Hook Point. This is the critical moment in the start of a cold interaction where the set (girls, group of girls, group of guys/girls) want you to stick around for a bit, because you are interesting. This is done by hooking their curiosity with negging (playful teasing) or an entertaining discussion stimulated by the opener.
A2. Female to Male Interest.
You need to get the girl interested, attracted, and/or intrigued in you first. The primary reason women are attracted to men is when men have a high perceived value. Value is created by a pickup technique called DHV (Demonstrating High Value). There are many pickup artist tactics to demonstrating high value and they include: story telling, tricks, magic demonstrations, psychic readings, joking, interesting discussion, etc.
A3. Male to Female Interest.
In this phase, The HB (Hot Babe) must be baited into demonstrating her own value. By doing this, you're only attracted to her by her character or wit, other than her looks. You have to have her gain your interest and be interested in something besides her looks. Since you have already shown your high value from A2, you are in a slight position of power and in a position to evaluate if she is cool enough to hang out with you.
C1. Building Rapport
In this stage, only the two of you ought to be chilling and talking. This is to create a sense of comfort with each another. This is the time to relax and just chitchat with each other, find any common interests, and begin to connect to each other.
C2. Building emotional and physical connections.
Emotional connection is simply talk taken to the next level. Here you want to include some childhood stories and memories that make you look delicate and vulnerable that offer tips into your thoughts. As soon as emotional connection has been established, you instantly want to escalate the physical connection using kino (touching). Kinoing is the very best method to develop out of the nasty "buddy zone" into the sexual zone.
C3. Intimacy.
The C3 takes place at a possible sex location. The talking/cuddling/kissing becomes serious and now it's time to seal the deal.
S1. Arousal
When you get to this stage, it is beyond the scope of pickup strategies, but another topic all together: your sexual game. The important thing is to intensify from C3 to S1 smoothly, naturally, and with precise timing. If you escalate prematurely or unnaturally, the woman will get buyer's remorse and you could blow it all!
S2. LMR (Last Minute Resistance).
Mystery states: "Last Minute Resistance. This is the point of no return before sex occurs. It's often a freak-out moment for the woman." "I just met you..." "Don't you think this is too fast...?" "Lets just make out..." Or just defends her important areas. The majority of girls do not want to feel like a slut so they will give some type of LMR. The secret here is to not be desperate and needy but rather reinforce the idea that she wants this and you are providing a service.
S3. Sex.
Have fun and call/email/text her. Don't be a jerk and ruin it for the rest of us. Real artists don't abandon their art after its finished.
If you study pickup artist methods, there exists a whole parallel universe complete with their own language, viewpoint, code system, and ideals. Amongst the various pickup artist tactics and systems, I will go over the world famous and legendary: Mystery's M3 Model. This is among the first, if not the first systems that was actually codified into a set structure and acts as the skeleton/guideline for quite a few of the systems out there.
Attraction
1. Open
2. Female to Male Interest
3. Male to Female Interest
Comfort
1. Building Rapport
2. Building emotional and physical connections
3. Intimacy
Seduction
1. Arousal
2. Last Minute Resistance
3. Sex
A1. Open
You open the set (group you want to approach), meaning you initiate contact by approaching them. This includes the hated cold approaches, pickup lines, and beginning a conversation. Must also include a Social Hook Point. This is the critical moment in the start of a cold interaction where the set (girls, group of girls, group of guys/girls) want you to stick around for a bit, because you are interesting. This is done by hooking their curiosity with negging (playful teasing) or an entertaining discussion stimulated by the opener.
A2. Female to Male Interest.
You need to get the girl interested, attracted, and/or intrigued in you first. The primary reason women are attracted to men is when men have a high perceived value. Value is created by a pickup technique called DHV (Demonstrating High Value). There are many pickup artist tactics to demonstrating high value and they include: story telling, tricks, magic demonstrations, psychic readings, joking, interesting discussion, etc.
A3. Male to Female Interest.
In this phase, The HB (Hot Babe) must be baited into demonstrating her own value. By doing this, you're only attracted to her by her character or wit, other than her looks. You have to have her gain your interest and be interested in something besides her looks. Since you have already shown your high value from A2, you are in a slight position of power and in a position to evaluate if she is cool enough to hang out with you.
C1. Building Rapport
In this stage, only the two of you ought to be chilling and talking. This is to create a sense of comfort with each another. This is the time to relax and just chitchat with each other, find any common interests, and begin to connect to each other.
C2. Building emotional and physical connections.
Emotional connection is simply talk taken to the next level. Here you want to include some childhood stories and memories that make you look delicate and vulnerable that offer tips into your thoughts. As soon as emotional connection has been established, you instantly want to escalate the physical connection using kino (touching). Kinoing is the very best method to develop out of the nasty "buddy zone" into the sexual zone.
C3. Intimacy.
The C3 takes place at a possible sex location. The talking/cuddling/kissing becomes serious and now it's time to seal the deal.
S1. Arousal
When you get to this stage, it is beyond the scope of pickup strategies, but another topic all together: your sexual game. The important thing is to intensify from C3 to S1 smoothly, naturally, and with precise timing. If you escalate prematurely or unnaturally, the woman will get buyer's remorse and you could blow it all!
S2. LMR (Last Minute Resistance).
Mystery states: "Last Minute Resistance. This is the point of no return before sex occurs. It's often a freak-out moment for the woman." "I just met you..." "Don't you think this is too fast...?" "Lets just make out..." Or just defends her important areas. The majority of girls do not want to feel like a slut so they will give some type of LMR. The secret here is to not be desperate and needy but rather reinforce the idea that she wants this and you are providing a service.
S3. Sex.
Have fun and call/email/text her. Don't be a jerk and ruin it for the rest of us. Real artists don't abandon their art after its finished.
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