Sunday, July 7, 2013

How To Build Self Confidence? Don't Believe In Failure

By Carie R. Farmer


Being confident in life is crucial to having a good life. That's why, if there's anything you must know it's how to build self confidence.I think it's so important that I would like to quickly teach you a strategy I use to achieve great things without ever doubting myself.Self confidence comes with success.The more successful you are, the more confident you'll become.If you want to get a good head start, take something you're already good at and improve on it even more. When you do that, your confidence will grow and you'll have all the power you'll need to achieve whatever you desire. Just do your best.You've probably heard me say this before, but I'll go ahead and say it again, anyway.There's no such thing as failure.

Low confidence is not being able to state the obvious; it is whimpering when you are giving the opportunity to lay your claims, you always end up worried behind the scene, throwing dirt on your skin. Women yearn for tough and confident guys; guys that know what they are doing so if you want to get the right girl you are dreaming about you need to have self confidence.Here are three major moves to make to build your self esteem, to be able to pass all the test of women. Women test men in relationships, you know those days they refuse to pick your calls and those days she shows up after you have waited for hours, you know those times she plays all those girl games and have you calling every other minutes just to make sure you don't lose her? Well, those are how women test men.And if you need to effectively by-pass this sort of tests you need to eliminate inferiority complex, how?

ACCEPT YOURSELF AND BELIEVE YOU CAN. This is the first step to self discovery, some guys just keep thinking they would be more confident if they can only add an inch to their height or if they could just change their color or size but the truth is that there is almost nothing you can do about your height, color and size except accepting them as the component of the real you. You are the real you, you just need to accept yourself and the world around you will accept you too.

you don't need to keep feeling disgusted about your skin color or whatever, you need to stop thinking that the guy under the tree is laughing because of your size, he may be laughing at you but that is only when you are laughing at yourself also, walk and talk majestically, like you like yourself, like you know what you are doing, stop looking down on yourself when you talk to people - you are unique.And whatever you believe about yourself, the world would eventually buy it.

As part of this positive environment, you will need to have Good Company and associate with positive, like-minded people as often as you can. Negative people will drain you of energy, fill you with limiting beliefs and lower your confidence levels.Conversely, positive people will inspire you, energize you and their assured self confidence will raise your confidence levels. They are a pleasure to be around too.

Be Decisive - Take a decision then resolve to follow through with it. Don't look for the approval or permission of others. Make the decision to do something that you want to do and then take action to get it done. Being decisive is part of being a confident, assured person who knows what they want to do and takes action to get it.Start small at first, for example, set a goal to exercise three times a week, changing to a healthier diet or starting the day in a positive manner and then move to bigger goals as your confidence to make decisions and follow through with them improves.




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