Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Discover The Art Of Flirting

By Brett Vaughan


Flirting is a crucial skill that some people acquire it naturally while others have to practice the art so as to master the skill. In the art of flirting, people have to go past their fear of approaching stranger and overcome the perception that strangers are dangerous. In fact, the anonymity of strangers should be seen as advantage since one has no information about the other.

Practice is all that people need for those that find it frustrating which is best done by approaching random stranger who are handy in building ones confidence by learning to initiate conversations. In addition, one feels safer this way since one has less chances of meeting the person again in which case they have nothing to lose; this there hence prepares them for meeting the right person.

Basically, the more one practices this art the more they get comfortable in doing it as one learns what is good for them and how to take a blow of their ego especially when rejected. Once one has perfected doing it with strangers it is usually time to move to semi-stranger and so on as one gets better at it. With time, one gathers the confident to approach the person that has been making your pulse speed up.

Usually some people may appear intimidating and as a result, people are cautious of approaching them for fear of rejection; what most people do not know is that they are likely to also be interested in them but are just waiting for someone to approach them. However, this is usually easier for people used in exchanging phone number and saliva as they are confident enough to know that there are some people out there who are interested in them.

More often than not, using the eyes is usually the first step in flirting, then the mouth and a little bit of some coyness in the case of women. The signs used by men and women differ as there are those used by women by may seem lame when used by men. For instance, women are allowed to act coy while men are expected to be confident; moreover, women have also evolved in the sense that they also approach men.

There usually is no right place for this as it can be done anywhere, all one needs to know is be able to take hints and read signals. For instance, a blink, a smile, or shyness may be a signal hinting to you that someone want you to approach them. However, being over flirtatious may be off-putting as one may seem easy and creepy especially if it is a lady does it.

This art takes a cycle whereby one starts by hinting their target with eye gestures, then a smile accompanied with body language which should be an indication that it is the right time to go t the target. In addition to this, being able to ignite a conversation is critical as having a conversation that is flowing makes the time enjoyable giving room to make an advance to break the touch barrier.

There are a couple of rules that one ought to consider for a successful flirting time especially for people who are planning to make it good enough for a second date. In this case, one should make it interesting and try as much as possible to leave when things are going well in order to leave room for suspense and anticipation for a second meeting.




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