Monday, March 3, 2014

Naples Psychologist Helps Couples With Marriage Counseling Solutions Together And Individually

By Donna Beley


If one partner in a marriage is not happy, she may want to discuss it. Her spouse may disagree. By speaking with a Naples psychologist, they can begin to improve the relationship by recognizing the existing problem.

If a serious issue is ignored, it may only get worse. Nothing can be resolved unless it is confronted. When both marriage partners are willing to work together, it is beneficial to the relationship.

If one is unwilling to attend counseling sessions, the other can still benefit from counseling. A psychologist usually prefers to see both spouses. At some point each one may have a session alone.

Before any issue can be addressed, the marriage counselor works to help them admit their part in creating the problem. He will understand them through questioning and body language. A psychologist can gauge how long it may take to resolve their issues.

Sensitive topics are always difficult to approach at first. One partner may want to be intimate more frequently than the other. Sex is important to the marital relationship as it is an expression of love.

Some factors lead to, instigate and maintain a sexless marriage. A lack of emotional intimacy is definitely not conducive to a healthy physical intimacy. Often a health problem can be part of the problem.

Lack of sexual contact can often be attributed to an underlying cause. Counseling can help bring awareness of that cause. If it can be understood, it may lead to a resolution of the sexual coldness.

Often cases of childhood abuse lead to the inability to form emotional intimacy or sexual intimacy. A person might be left, as an adult, disliking the very thought of sex. The situation can be devastating.

One spouse may be injured or ill. If prescription medication is needed, it can lead to a decreased libido. However, the major reason for intimacy issues is the inability to communicate.




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