Saturday, December 22, 2018

How To Know You Have Anger Management Problems

By Deborah Butler


Humans laugh, smile, cry and even get angry. Those are natural emotions that a normal human being feels. Likewise, people would really say that to you so that you can let your raw emotions out. Cry if you feel sad. Smile or laugh whenever you feel happy. Be angry if it frustrates you. On the last part, too much of anger can sometimes lead you to bad consequences. Not only you might physically or emotionally hurt people with that emotion, you might also became lost and uncontrollable. When that occurs, an anger management counseling Seattle is needed.

All people have experienced feeling angry about certain things. When stress is taking over you and someone suddenly annoys you for fun, it would really cause you to yell at that someone out of anger. When your sibling eat your favourite cake that you bought yesterday, just seeing the sight of your sibling makes you livid. Needless to say, being angry is very normal because that is how you express yourself and tell someone how you really feel. That you do not like those things anymore.

Let us go back to the betrayal situation. Jenna broke her promise in which she would never tell the parents of Sheba about her gambling addiction. When Sheba figure it out, she was furious. If you are in the shoes of Sheba, how will you deal your anger? There are tons of ways to manage it. But for people with anger issues, they might certainly pick something that is harmful.

If ever you are in her shoes, you could just reprimand her brother and tell the parents about it. But Corrine has some anger problems, so she would do the opposite. She would grab a broom stick and start beating Jimmy with that object.

The behaviour of Corrine shows how those people with anger issues behave. They do not know how to calm down when they feel aggravated and livid. And most of the time, the way they interact with others would usually be mixed with fury.

Another one is their aggression. In that situation, Corrine immediately resorted to physical violence and that is typical to those individuals having this issue. Whenever they became mad, violence is the key to express it. Their aggression would even become worse once that person is in drugs or alcohol.

Those individuals having that kind of problem will have difficulty in their social relationship. Nevertheless, it still can be mended. In addition, venting out is not also the good solution since it can only add fuel to the fire. There are actually therapies which could help a person in that case.

The best way for that is to seek some medical and professional advice. They can take Anger Management Therapy. This therapy can be an individual or group counselling. Counsellors will help you on how to manage your anger by guiding you on controlling your impulse, giving you some relaxation and breathing strategies and also teach you some self-awareness.

Whenever you know someone or perhaps you, yourself, are also suffering, seek a professional help. Willingness is also needed. That way, you would know how to deal anger.




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