Thursday, April 13, 2017

Why Emotional Growth In Adults Is Important

By Paul Smith


Physically, you may feel your age, but emotionally you may still feel like a child. Emotional growth in adults can be stunted because of various reasons. A mature person is able to make decisions, come up with good ideas, they are able to make good conversation and they feel stable with other adults. They are comfortable in their relationships around them.

Someone who has not reached this maturity won't feel comfortable in any of their relationships. They will be struggling in different parts of their life. They may be battling to fit in at work. They will be suffering with various disorders, such as with depression and anxiety. This person is far from the healthy adult. They realize that there is something wrong.

You often feel trapped or stuck in your job or in your personal life. Many people are always trying to improve their life and they are able to cope with various challenges that come their way. However, someone who is not emotionally mature, will not be able to cope in the same way. They may become anxious or depressed when they have too much on their plate to cope with.

Someone who is more mature will not feel sorry for themselves. They may come across the odd challenge, because this is part of life, but they won't see themselves as a victim in life. They will become angry, but they will be able to control their temper in most circumstances. They are not as sensitive as someone who is emotionally immature.

It can difficult to have a relationship with someone like this. They may become attached to their partner. They may be looking for the wrong type of partner. Often they will look for someone who they know they will break up with. They are often afraid of rejection and they will make sure that this doesn't have to them.

This can carry on your entire life until you look for help. If you don't it can continue to bring you down. You will look for an escape, you will stop socializing and you will suffer from depression and anxiety. A good quality of life can't result from this. People who have the courage to seek help and solve their problems are those who will reap the rewards.

It is something that you have to work on. It is a process. People need to get out of their comfort zone. In order to do this you have to talk about the scars and the hurts which have been bothering you all of your life. When you do this you will start to become more mature in your thinking and the way you come across.

Your life will begin to change. You will be able to make decisions. You will be able show kindness and compassion for others. The need to be right all of the time will be less of a feature. Instead you will be able to show more empathy and have respect other people in your life. As you develop these feelings, you will understand more about love. This is something new and greatly rewarding.




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