Wednesday, October 16, 2013

How To Make A Girl Like You

By Diane Kuhn


If you have your eyes set on a popular girl, then you will have to work hard to impress her. Since she is popular, she has the benefit of being the "prize." And since she is coveted you have to work harder to get her attention. But it is not an impossible task to get a popular girl to like you. All you need is a strategy that will work. Here are a few great ways of making a popular girl like you.

Chemistry makes it a priority to find out what makes a girl like you. Approaching the girl that makes your heart skip a beat with the funny pick up lines you just garnished from your best mate is a huge gamble and, probably, will die a miserable death right before your eyes. A female can never be approached or dealt with like a headache. By this I mean, with a headache, any common pain killer will suffice.

Have an "I don't care a damn" attitude surround you. Be open and playful around the girl you like and don't conform to social norms if you want to say something.You will also have to play some mind games here to get her attention. So when you see this girl, just acknowledge her and nothing more. Make her feel like yes she is popular but you are not crazy about her.

The second thing you need to master is your body language. It is important to remember that communication is estimated to be only be 7 percent verbal. The rest is body language, facial expressions and voice tone. It is important that you learn to carry yourself in a confident manner. Stand straight with your shoulders back and your chest out. Be slightly more pronounced with your movements and make hand gestures when you talk. Fill up space with your body. Don't shrivel up. Use confident eye contact. Body language is key. Do all you can to master it.

The third thing to do is to gain the ability to talk to a girl you like. Learn how to use your voice when you talk to women. Keep eye contact and occasionally flick to her lips so that you can create some sexual tension. Get good at banter. Don't be afraid to mock her a little. Have interesting stories from your life ready and practice telling them to your friends. Relax and be comfortable around girls. Also learn how to be a good listener. Women love conversation. There are times when you need to build attraction through talk, but often times the more intimate moments call for your attention.

The fourth quality yo must instill in yourself is grooming. Most guys believe that women are primarily motivated by a guys looks. The truth is that personal grooming is much more important than genetic good-looks. Make sure your nails are cut, your hair is the way it should be, your clothes are on point, your teeth are brushed and you're showered and smelling great. Think about maximizing your physical qualities. If you need to get an eyebrow wax, go get one! If you need to change your hair style or clothing style, do it! Don't be afraid to make changes.If you can study and master these four elements you'll know exactly how to make a girl like you.

So how can you tell if she likes you? Let's start with the basics. These are the signals that every girl gives out, regardless of whether you work together or you've caught her eye across a crowded club. Is she looking at you and smiling? There's no better sign. Confident girls may maintain eye contact, but most will glance quickly away the moment you notice them watching you. Check to see if she keeps looking back your way - if she can't keep her eyes off you, you know that she's interested.

Covert Tactic 2 - "Fractionation". This is a neuro linguistic programming (also known as NLP) tactic which has been used extensively to hypnotize people. Through a simple (but systematic) usage of anchors and emotional elicitations, men who use this technique have been known to be able to make females sleep with them in less than 15 minutes. Very powerful stuff, and highly controversial - some has called for it to be 'banned' because of its nature.

With the words starting to flow, she will look for excuses to touch your hand or your arm. Making physical contact with you is a sure sign of her interest.If your crush is on a girl you know or work with, you may believe this complicates matters. Nobody wants to be rejected by someone they have to see or speak to on a daily basis. In fact, fancying someone you're friendly with puts you in a great position; you will already have proven to her that you're a good guy, and your close contact gives you plenty of opportunities to figure out if she's interested in you.

One of the best ways to get any girl you want to like you is to have a sense of style. Girls notice guys with style. You don't have to be a model to have style you just need to dress nicely and have good hygiene. Always walk with your head up. Never slouch, sulk, or look down at your feet. Walk around as if you're a man on a mission, and women will take notice.Want to know what to increase your chances with a girl? Be nice to her friends. If you treat her friends with respect, they will put in a good word for you. You can even befriend them and hang out with them if you want to get closer to her.Have good manners if you want to make a girl like you. Show her that chivalry isn't dead, and she will really appreciate your politeness. You can do this by opening doors for her, offering to carry her shopping bags, and just being nice in general. This is one of the best things you can do when trying get the girl you want.Follow these tips to make women like you, and you will attract any girl you want!




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